References

Resilience and Survival

A rally to survive. Use this or find one that means something to you. Here's my reference -

Mendes, Shawn. (2018). In My Blood [YouTube]. Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36tggrpRoTI

Albom, Mitch. (1997). Tuesdays with Morrie. Random House, New York (Book).

(quotes used throughout site)

Hildon, Z., Montgomery, S. M., Blane, D., Wiggins, R. D., & Netuveli, G. (2010). Examining resilience of quality of life in the face of health-related and psychosocial adversity at older ages: What is “right” about the way we age? Gerontologist, 50(1), 36–47.

Loh, J.M.I., Schutte, N.S. & Thorsteinsson, E.B. (2014). Be happy: The role of resilience between characteristic affect and symptoms of depression. Journal of Happiness Studies. 15, 1125-1138. doi:10.1007/s10902-013-9467-2

Manning, L. K., Carr, D. C., & Lennox-Kail, B. (2016). Do higher levels of resilience buffer the deleterious impact of chronic illness on disability in later life? Gerontologist, 56 (3), 514-524. doi:10.1093/geront/gnu068

Masten, A.S. (2001). Ordinary magic: Resilience processes in development. American Psychologist, 56, 227-238.

Williamson, Marianne. (1992). A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles. Harper Collins Publishers.

Quotes Used On Website

.... now lost each other in the shadow of the evening trees - (I'll wait for you...) please wait for me

Bruce Springsteen Song

If I Should Fall Behind (1992)

Lucky Town (Album)

Quotes by Dalai Lama

Just Dharma Quotes (weblink)

https://quotes.justdharma.com/same-human-potential/

from the book Kindness, Clarity and Thought

Translated by Jeffrey Hopkins

Good Reads - Dalai Lama XIV

https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/570218.Dalai_Lama_XIV

and The Art of Happiness - Dalai Lama XIV

(the) Star. (2009). Interview with Jim Cuddy. Retrieved from https://www.thestar.com/entertainment/music/2009/02/14/jim_cuddy_finds_pain_a_clarifying_thing.html

Suicide Lines

Suicide Help Lines in Canada

http://www.suicide.org/hotlines/international/canada-suicide-hotlines.html

Grief and Loss

The following are general grief resource SUGGESTIONS... this list is not meant as prescriptive or an endorsement. Please also do your own search for what book or website is more helpful for you.

"Grieving: How to Go on Living When Someone You Love Dies" (Rando, Therese)

"Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief" (Russell, Sherry)

"How to Survive the Loss of Love" (Colgrove, Melba)

"A Path Through Loss: A Guide to Writing Your Healing and Growth" (Reeves, Nancy)

Survivors of Suicide